Hi coach, my ex if 3an half yr and I broke up 6 months ago because of cheating but we were in contact but last week I blocked him and dint respond his call and message.after this he blocked me .what is he doing??
Hey maile di, he is simply retaliating for you blocking him. We don’t encourage anyone to block anyone. It doesn’t really help your cause and all it does is increase the negative tension – Adrian
I had a 10yr relationship. She threw it away for a guy that is on depression meds. They started dating 2 days later. And her parents kept telling her to leave me. They didnt like me from start. We have a son together.
Hey, I wanna text my ex again to be friends again.
I wished her a short happy birthday message to which she replied a thank you.
It‘s been 5 months since the break up, which was semi peaceful.
I know she loves dogs and we used to dream about getting a puppy and giving it a specific name. She also back then sent me a pic of a drawing as a bday gift.
Does it sound appropriate if I first text her something along the lines that I don‘t have a gift but remember her sending a pic of her drawing as a gift back then so I could instead send her a picture of my puppy(which I got after the break up).
This way I‘m leaving her the choice to signal me if she wants to keep texting and if she says sure I wanna send a picture and say something like the puppy‘s name isn’t „ „(the name we thought of back then) but here you go.
Does this sound like a funny and positive way to remember us wanting to get a puppy and having her see mine?
Can’t wait to listen to your latest video while I work. As mentioned before, my ex and I were surely reconciling and he was being super sweet/romantic everything then suddenly he pulled the “I’m going to concentrate fully on work card”….and vanished pretty much Around the same time or right after, I noticed on his work IG, that there was a girl now following him and vice versa. She’s only 27 and he’s 44. Now she shares a common hobby of surfing and she has a very new IG. Only a handful of photos which majority he has liked. He left the fire emoji on a surfing photo of hers… Oddly enough she had a long winded post about people who avoid commitment and he liked that. (How ironic as he runs at the sign of emotions or commitment talk) lol. I know I shouldn’t check but last night I looked to see if anyone tagged him and low and behold, she tagged him in a post yesterday. Not him but one of his surfboards as she took a random last min trip to Cali. I don’t think he was there too. Now it didn’t look like it was made for her or that she bought it but one of his personal boards, I could recognize it with the specific stickers he had on his board. Now they’re not following each other on his personal IG which has him tagged in my photos and whatnot so it shows traces of me there. I’m curious to see if he’ll like that he was tagged or not want me to know…I’m pretty upset as well as he promised numerous times since the beginning of his business to make me a board and never did….Why treat strangers or new people better than me? My question is, could he have moved on THAT fast? If this is a rebound or whatever it is since he seems to AVOID commitment due to past trauma, do I disappear from my social and not post or just go on posting normal happy stuff like I’m not even bothered? Please help!
Married 13 years with kids going on 3 months separated and I miss her! But I’m the one who initiated the divorce,giving her,her grounds for the divorce! I regret it but its my fault.Neglected her emotionally.Then committed infidelity because I was convinced I was done and was convinced she was done too.Now I know I really do love her & am still in love with her and want her back but I believe it may be too late now.Though she said she wants a divorce and that we will NEVER get back together again.I still hold out hope that we will but we will see.I’m just trying to give her her space now.We only really talk when it comes to the kids.We get along & still laugh at times,maybe some small flirting but I know she’s still very angry & hurt with me for what I did.What advice would you give me as I try to work on myself now?
Hi coach, my ex if 3an half yr and I broke up 6 months ago because of cheating but we were in contact but last week I blocked him and dint respond his call and message.after this he blocked me .what is he doing??
Hey maile di, he is simply retaliating for you blocking him. We don’t encourage anyone to block anyone. It doesn’t really help your cause and all it does is increase the negative tension – Adrian
I had a 10yr relationship. She threw it away for a guy that is on depression meds. They started dating 2 days later. And her parents kept telling her to leave me. They didnt like me from start. We have a son together.
Hey, I wanna text my ex again to be friends again.
I wished her a short happy birthday message to which she replied a thank you.
It‘s been 5 months since the break up, which was semi peaceful.
I know she loves dogs and we used to dream about getting a puppy and giving it a specific name. She also back then sent me a pic of a drawing as a bday gift.
Does it sound appropriate if I first text her something along the lines that I don‘t have a gift but remember her sending a pic of her drawing as a gift back then so I could instead send her a picture of my puppy(which I got after the break up).
This way I‘m leaving her the choice to signal me if she wants to keep texting and if she says sure I wanna send a picture and say something like the puppy‘s name isn’t „ „(the name we thought of back then) but here you go.
Does this sound like a funny and positive way to remember us wanting to get a puppy and having her see mine?
Dnt text or reach out when u feel like doing so please listen to these videos and reach out to your YouTube support family…
Can’t wait to listen to your latest video while I work. As mentioned before, my ex and I were surely reconciling and he was being super sweet/romantic everything then suddenly he pulled the “I’m going to concentrate fully on work card”….and vanished pretty much Around the same time or right after, I noticed on his work IG, that there was a girl now following him and vice versa. She’s only 27 and he’s 44. Now she shares a common hobby of surfing and she has a very new IG. Only a handful of photos which majority he has liked. He left the fire emoji on a surfing photo of hers… Oddly enough she had a long winded post about people who avoid commitment and he liked that. (How ironic as he runs at the sign of emotions or commitment talk) lol. I know I shouldn’t check but last night I looked to see if anyone tagged him and low and behold, she tagged him in a post yesterday. Not him but one of his surfboards as she took a random last min trip to Cali. I don’t think he was there too. Now it didn’t look like it was made for her or that she bought it but one of his personal boards, I could recognize it with the specific stickers he had on his board. Now they’re not following each other on his personal IG which has him tagged in my photos and whatnot so it shows traces of me there. I’m curious to see if he’ll like that he was tagged or not want me to know…I’m pretty upset as well as he promised numerous times since the beginning of his business to make me a board and never did….Why treat strangers or new people better than me? My question is, could he have moved on THAT fast? If this is a rebound or whatever it is since he seems to AVOID commitment due to past trauma, do I disappear from my social and not post or just go on posting normal happy stuff like I’m not even bothered? Please help!
Married 13 years with kids going on 3 months separated and I miss her! But I’m the one who initiated the divorce,giving her,her grounds for the divorce! I regret it but its my fault.Neglected her emotionally.Then committed infidelity because I was convinced I was done and was convinced she was done too.Now I know I really do love her & am still in love with her and want her back but I believe it may be too late now.Though she said she wants a divorce and that we will NEVER get back together again.I still hold out hope that we will but we will see.I’m just trying to give her her space now.We only really talk when it comes to the kids.We get along & still laugh at times,maybe some small flirting but I know she’s still very angry & hurt with me for what I did.What advice would you give me as I try to work on myself now?